#40 identified and added to the list. Maybe I'll wait to add the story so Julie can stew a little bit and wonder which one it might be?!?!
I received another entry telling their story. I responded with the email address provided. If you did not received my response, please use the contact form again. Be sure to check Spam and Junk folders, just in case!
More connections are being made between Julie's self reports of situations and events and her online male persona. Events that "he" is discussing with the victims are coinciding with the dates and descriptions of the events found posted by Julie.
I responded by email today to a comment submitted from Holland. The Dr Phil show is being aired across the world and is reaching so many people. Our goal was to reach out to others and it's working! I couldn't be more satisfied :) We are here to help
I just wanted to make a note to people who submit comments on blogs or using the Contact Us form, if you have not received a response, check your Spam or Junk mail. I respond to all entries submitted to the email address provided. You will see the subject of the email indicate "Catfish" or state this: "Re: New Form Entry: Contact Form".
There was a large number of views to the website today. For a while now, there's been A LOT of views from Texas using search terms that may only be known by a victim, or someone who knows a victim. Its a wild guess. If so, don't hesitate to contact me.
You don't have to, but for some it just does. The aftermath of what happened, the emotional tragedy, lingers whether you want it to or not. Some express that even though a significant time has passed since you found the truth or since you finally ended it with that monster, the fear, the pain, the distress creeps up on you when you least expect it. You find yourself looking over your shoulder wondering if someone is watching you, secretly, because you don't really know who might be behind you. You see faces and you wonder if that's the person that caused you so much hurt, pain, suffering, wondering, frustration, devastation, disappointment, anger, fury, confusion and self blame. That's simply putting it into few words. Those that have experienced being "catfished" are the only ones that can fully understand the effect that this can have on someone. Julie is not the victim as she portrays herself to be. She is the predator. I'm thankful for my experience for very few reasons, one of which is that I can help others. When you think it's time that it all should be gone, there is something that triggers a memory or a "red flag." So, do you have to let it linger? No, you don't want it to, but it does.
I would imagine after years of betraying and deceiving so many people that one might find it hard to trust others. You never know who knows something and just isn't letting you know they know, who has information and is sharing with others, who looks at you with a suspicious eye...I know I would be extremely paranoid of anyone I speak to or have any interactions with had someone accused me of what this site is accusing this catfish of doing. I think I would hate living my life not knowing who I could trust, who might know my secrets and telling others, who is pretending to care only to get information from me. Good thing I don't have to worry about that. We create our own karma.
The question has been asked several times by numerous people and we can only speculate on answers: Why won't Julie defend or explain herself? We don't know the answer to that. I also wonder, if Julie is being framed like she claims to be, why won't she work with us instead of against us? I dont know about you but if I was being accused of something as heinous as this, I'd work like hell to clear my name and let it be known that it's not me. I mean 10 years??? Come on! How can you be framed for 10 years and still claim to not know anything about what's going on, even after saying you have "police and lawyers" involved investigating this? To me, only a guilty person in this situation would run and hide, refuse to speak and tell their side of the story. What am I missing? Please, comment. Share some ideas and help me to understand why a self proclaimed innocent person is behaving this way?